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Post by Aminta on Mar 1, 2006 17:13:10 GMT -5
There's this girl I know. She lies constantly and I can tell it. It's extremely obvious. Cough. I get annoyed easily because sometimes she doesn't think twice about what she says and then regrets it. I've argued with her for a while, and afterwards, she thanked me. She said she wasn't mad at me. But it was online, so I couldn't tell whether or not she was upset. She seemed pretty upset the next day. She never acts the same with me again. But I don't blame her..me being a time ticking bomb. I gave up on apoligizing, since I know that this type of person never changes. And don't tell me to try to forgive her, because I've tried that. Many times. Also, she has had several parties and movies and hasn't invited me to any of them. A good excuse would probably be that we aren't any close anymore. But I'm a little dissapointed because it's really clear that she IS mad at me..even though she told me she wasn't. So what should I do? Hang onto a broken friendship? Or get rid of her for good? To be honest, I'm really sick of her. The only time that I see traces of her previous self was when she does a pitiful attempt to act cute like walking. Or talking in a high, fumbly voice. Sick sick sick of it!
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Post by Carma on Mar 1, 2006 17:16:30 GMT -5
now if that isn't me, I'd say ditch her. But if it is me, I accept your apology? (did we even EVER fight?) Am I forgetting something that happened? How many parties have I thrown..uhh...one. I think. uh oh... *frets*
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Post by Aminta on Mar 1, 2006 17:19:20 GMT -5
It's definetely not you.
I mean, you're probably one of the greatest people to. I'm most honest to you, I gotta admit.
I was talking about _______.
RAWRGETH!
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Post by Carma on Mar 1, 2006 18:33:31 GMT -5
; Ditch ______.RAWRGETH! then. People who don't accept apologies...well, don't waste your life doing so ._.
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Post by Sinyee on Mar 1, 2006 19:20:13 GMT -5
For your problem it all depends on you really. I mean if she bugs you that much, then yes, you should dump her. But not in a way that you kill her. Noone should face that.
I had a really great friend once and i could tell that she was always lying and making up stories and such both in front and behind my back. So i just slowly stopped talking to her. One day i'd have a convo and a week later when we pass each other in the hall i would murmur a greeting and by the end of the month we would be ignoring each other completely.
But you shouldn't block her out of your life when she askes you do something with her. Go along with it but you should act distant about it as if you would rather not be there but ONLY if you do feel that way.
Just saying this as a suggestion. See if you think its good
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Post by Flers on Mar 1, 2006 20:24:42 GMT -5
i know who it is......if you ditch her, it'll be so weird when the three of us are together but if you don't, one day when you really can't take it anymore, you'll explode at her and thats not a good thing.
but this is reallie up to you, you could try talking to her again but that might just have a even more negative effect or maybe you can hang in there till the year ends. once you get to high school, you won't be hanging around her anymore....well at leats not as much.
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Post by Sinyee on Mar 1, 2006 20:29:05 GMT -5
i agrree.....if you really dont want anything bad to happen you should just hang tight until the end of the year
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Post by Juju on Mar 1, 2006 22:13:03 GMT -5
let the little bootch burn.....
unless its me
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Post by Jessica on Mar 6, 2006 18:48:12 GMT -5
if she cant face you now, she's not going to face you later. i say ditch her...good freinds don't just leave you hanging
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Post by Sro on Mar 6, 2006 19:10:00 GMT -5
well, it truly depends on you two. it doesn't seem like you have any intention of suffering this broken friendship... i would say ditch her. she obviously doesn't seem to care about you and you shouldn't have put up with it. that's not fair
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